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Repetition and Play
By Joyce Hemphill (Queen of Play)
I was chatting with a first year nanny who is caring for two young children; the oldest will be starting kindergarten in the fall. Once a week she takes them to the museum. The kids love the museum, BUT they always want to see the same exhibits. The nanny is frustrated because there is so much more to see and do. Her situation reminded me of when my sons were that age and how they always wanted to play the same game and read the same book over and over.
“Don’t worry,” I told her. “There will be days when they want to explore more and try different things, but for now it is OK for them to return to what is familiar. It’s natural. Children find comfort in knowing how things work and what comes next.”
Think about it, don’t we all take comfort and gain confidence in something the more we do it? Has your confidence as a driver improved from the time you first took the wheel? Have your knife skills improved with each meal you have prepared? Repetition builds confidence. Repetition improves memory. Repetition is a way of learning.
So if the children want to head straight for the Wildernest or the Rooftop Ramble, let them. Give them their time. And while they are in their favorite area ask questions and give suggestions to expand their play. Offering a twist on something familiar enhances creative problem solving while staying within their comfort zone.
Then, after having fun in their favorite spot, branch out and move on to another exhibit. Take it slow. Encourage them to explore, and point out areas of potential interest along the way. Walk up and examine a play structure more closely. How does it work? Does your child see it the same way? Many of the exhibits are designed for open-ended play, so together you can brainstorm different possibilities for play. Your child’s curiosity will lead the way. Be there to offer support and encourage that curiosity. And if they are hesitant, don’t be discouraged. Be patient. On your next visit they may be ready to try something different. There are many adventures to be had at the museum and time is needed to enjoy each and every one to the fullest.
Joyce
